I am going to be okay; I claim it.


In a blink of an eye, we are in August 2023.  Just like that, eight months flew by while I was still holding my breath.  As I put my life in pause mode, I missed the opportunity to enjoy my blog, my YouTube channel, and all the little things dear to my heart.

I needed some time to adjust to my newly single status.  Now I wonder, was I adjusting, or was I dwelling on all the disappointment that comes with that new status?  It’s time for the self-pity party to end.   I must let go of the pain, breathe again, and set my old self free.

I did not even realize, that I was letting precious moments escape me.  Although from a distance, everything seems well.   I was not fully present; I was indifferent towards life.

When going through hard times, all the good habits aren’t enough to push you forward.  For me, one small pattern seemed to win my life these past 8 months and was holding me hostage.  I know I cannot escape that feeling of uncertainty.   I am validating my pain and fear to let them go.   I am still scared; I still don’t know what I will do, but I will not let fear guide my path anymore.  My future is still uncertain but it’s a blank slate and it is up to me to fill it with the best.  I am going to be okay; I claim it.  I know it’s a process, and just like I overcame past challenges, I will go through this.  I will create a new life, start being present, and control only what I can control.  It’s time to reset my mind, delete my problems, and resume making happy moments.

At some point, we all go through difficult moments, but we should not let these instances define us.  If you find yourself in a situation where uncertainty seems to prevail, the challenges keep coming; rest assured that you are not alone. Are you putting your life on pause just like I did?  Together, let’s hit the reset button, and start anew.   We are going to be okay, let’s put it on the universe, and let’s claim our happiness back.


  1. I feel for you because a friend of mine dealt with these same emotions not too long ago. It’s never easy trying to start fresh, or even knowing what it means to do so. Glad you’re slowly getting back to your blog and focusing on the things that make you who you are. Sending hugs your way!

  2. I relate to this so much! It’s so important to try to keep ourselves positives and know that it will work our for us. Thanks for sharing this with us 🙂

  3. You have a fan in me and I want to hear your story and share with you my story and like you said, we all go through these difficult times and sisterhood will get us through it. Know that you have a strong, powerful support system around you and through your followers. We’ll get on the other side of those tumultuous waters together.


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